A colleague at work just approached me and started talking gibberish, or at least now I consider that gibberish, before it would have upset me.
He came into my office, saying you know I consider you like my one year older sister (what is the use of that sentence, I have no idea) and you would accept any critic from me.
I was: Khier. (In side my head, oh noooo…. not a critic… laughing my ass off in my head)
He was: I know you well, but others don’t so you have to be careful when you treat others while working.
I know when you work you are concentrating really hard, and do not put any attention on how you talk to others during that mood, And others might get upset.
I was: so what? we are here to work and not make friends.
He was: no not what I mean. Do you want people to get upset from you?
I was: some people, and a certain person in my head, deserves such treatment. (the person I was talking about, is nothing but a nosy *****, every time she comes into my office, she has to stand behind the desk and look at what I am doing. That just pisses me OFF)
Anyway; to make the story short, he left my office unsuccessful. He couldn’t convince me to be more careful.
He did not know that I am tired of people taking me for granted because I am tooooo nice to them.
I happened at my last job and happened at this one as well.
I am tired being trampled over.
And anyway, the angel inside of me, kept on trying to recall my working day yesterday, and nothing happened, I did not talk to anyone badly, not even remotely close to badly. Or was he talking about himself?